Losing a loved one to suicide is difficult and can be overwhelming. The ripples of impact from a loss can be far-reaching, including family and friends, co-workers, and community members. We acknowledge these painful emotions and can help you or a loved one navigate the grieving process after a suicide loss.
There is no “right” way to grieve the loss of a loved one to suicide. If you are struggling, there is support available.
Connecting with Support
Find a support group. You don’t have to cope with your loss alone. Foundation 2 Crisis Services provides free support groups for suicide loss survivors. Learn more here.
From the Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Do what feels right to you. Don’t feel pressured to talk right away. Do what feels right to you. If you choose to discuss your loss, speaking can give your friends and family the opportunity to talk to you in an appropriate way.
Write. You may find it helpful to write your feelings or to write a letter to your lost loved one. This can be a safe place to express some of the things you were not able to say before their death.
Ask for help. Don’t be afraid to let your friends provide support to you, or to look for resources in your community such as therapists, co-workers, to family members.
The Foundation 2 crisis line is available 24/7 to help provide support, including with emotions after a loss to suicide. Our trained crisis counselors are experienced in navigating life after a loss to suicide and can help you navigate your current feelings and make a plan for the future.
In this month’s episode of “When Life Gets Tough,” Taylor Vanderlind shares her personal story of loss and resistance after her dad died by suicide in 2018. Following his passing, Taylor has become a dedicated advocate for mental health services, and suicide prevention and intervention. She now lives in Cedar Rapids and partners with Foundation 2 on community projects and advocacy.
“The biggest thing is about honoring the person how you remember them, not about how you are sad. Everybody’s sad. It’s okay to be sad. Being sad is a part of the grief. But finding things that were special about that person and honoring those things and (remembering) those things, and the people that all loved him, having them all together as support, I think made a big difference.”